There is an aspect of settling estates that is often overlooked. Many times lawyers don't take into account the psychological trauma affecting the whole family during the probate process. The lawyer's job is to make sure all the I's are dotted and all the T's are crossed. It does not leave much time to discuss issues of anger, or try to resolve problems between family members. This is a time when people want to be reassured that their needs are being met. Often, this is a time when the family glue becomes undone...